Juliet is a Tragic Heroine
Juliet’s decisions are in keeping with women’s rights and yet she is a flawed, tragic heroine of her time who pays the ultimate price for her defiance. She was bred by her parents who provided a cushy life for her. In her time, this ‘social breeding’, was in preparation for the day she would leave home. Ultimately, to obey another set of rules - to be an obedient wife to a husband (chosen by her parents). Juliet lives a safe, sheltered life, she is young and inexperienced. You could say her flaw is her eagerness to please others. Put that together with her natural curiosity and she will react impulsively and make bad decisions that get her into serious trouble. It’s no wonder that her parents keep such a tight rein on her, knowing how ripe she is for the taking and how sweetly innocent she is.
Let’s take a look at her behavior with Romeo early in Act 2 Scene 2, when she is alone with Romeo for the first time. She starts out well-mannered and restrains herself “I have no joy in this contract tonight. It is too rash, too unadvised, too sudden...” Then at the end of this scene, after allowing him to kiss her, she suddenly declares“...all my fortunes at thy foot I’ll lay and follow thee my lord throughout the world.” She disobeys her parents and breaks all code of conduct of a well bred lady. She desperately clings to her new lord and master, Romeo who is probably as surprised as anyone to possess her heart and soul so rapidly. She breaks from all modesty, losing her self control, in the name of love!
Back in Shakespeare’s time a young woman of Juliet’s class could not even consider ‘dating’ someone that her family did not approve of; and making a decision about who to marry was out of the question. As in Act 3 Scene 2 when Juliet’s father (Lord Capulet) is angered by her resistance to marry Paris and degrades her “Mistress, minion you, Thank me no thankings nor proud me no prouds, But fettle your joints ‘gainst Thursday next, to go with Paris...” and he warns and insults her, “ I will drag thee thither. Out, you baggage!...” He then goes on to yell at her calling her a “disobedient wretch” and telling her to shut up and do as she’s told, “ Speak not; reply not; do not answer me. My fingers itch.” (that last part about his fingers ‘itching’ is telling how he would hit her if she doesn’t shut up and do as she is told).
Juliet listens to her heart and refuses the man her father has chosen for her. She is not expected to marry for love and if she is forced to marry Paris, she feels that a part of her will die. In the end she decides that dying with Romeo is better than living with that lie. This is shown in Act 4 Scene 1, Juliet confesses to Friar Lawrence (who is aiding her to make a Holy secret bond between her & Romeo), “ O, bid me leap, rather than marry Paris, from off the battlements of any tower.” This shows how she would take her own life, rather than conform to the social norm and obey her father’s demands. This defiance makes her a proud, strong woman because she makes this fearless decision to follow her heart no matter what the cost. Even though she breaks away from being her father’s obedient little girl, she is under Romeo’s influence and lets herself overlook the fact that he has killed her cousin. As seen in her defense of Romeo, in Act 3 Scene 2, hearing the news “Tybalt is dead and Romeo banished”-her reaction is as a dutiful wife, “O, that deceit should grow in such a gorgeous palace...” and then, “ Shall I speak ill of him that is my husband...” and “that villain cousin [Tybalt] would have killed my husband.” She is determined to stand by her man no matter how criminal and unspeakable his offense.
Juliet’s freedom comes with her suicide, when she is finally free from her painful ordeal and everyone’s judgment. All her life she’s told what to do, how to behave, what to wear, when to speak, when to wake up and when to go to sleep. At the end she is scared and alone, but with her final act she does something completely on her own for the first time, and bravely follows Romeo to the grave. Did she have a choice? How would she live if she were cast out by her family with no training or skills? This was evidenced in Lord Capulet’s warning to her in Act 3 Scene 5 when he has his final say on the matter, “ I’ll give you to my friend, an you be not, hang, beg, starve, die in the streets. For by my soul, I’ll never acknowledge thee.” This definitely rings in her ears when she realizes she will be cast out of society and shamed for life. She is not strong enough to bear this shame alone.
Juliet is both a heroine and a tragic figure. She follows her heart and is inspiring because she decides to live her life with the man she truly loves. It is sad that she must defy her father’s wishes and bring shame on her family. It makes me thankful that I live at a time when women have so many more options and choices about how to live their lives.